Stephanie,

I admire the way you think & write about it.

Having lived my 83 years, I have learnt that we make the best decision we have to make at the time.

We can only do that. Only after a time will we know if we did make the right choice.

When you mentioned Cantor Fitzgerald, my heart hurt...once more.

Three young men I knew so well who worked there, lost their lives. Two were my friends' sons, and a neighbor's son I would see daily.

Fate saved your husband & friend.

Thank Goodness!